Tuesday, November 27, 2012

merry christmas from our family to yours.

Believing in Miracles is one of the main things that I have learned to do in the past 2 years. I have learned to develop expectations that are far larger than realistic. I have learned to BELIEVE and HOPE like that of a Fairy Tell. I am sure many of you have thought, “Wow Lauren, let’s be Realistic.” Luckily, our “unrealistic” goals for Hayden allowed us to learn so much about the value of life. We will never be able to express our love to the friends that have sent cards throughout the past 4 months. The simple text messages of love and support. We LOVE Hayden! We LOVE his legacy. We LOVE talking about him. These are the only parts of life that are going to get us through the next few months. Your love and kind hearts are felt each and every day. We appreciate each person that has continued to recognize Hayden. We appreciate each person that chooses to still talk about him. We have good days. We have bad days. We have strong moments. We have weak moments. I believe all of these moments are normal??? After all losing a child is a little more difficult than putting a dent in your car.

We are going to lean on the memories of last year to make it through this year. We are going to also lean on the friends that have kept us moving for the past few months to keep talking about sweet Hayden and all his sweet moments.

As each of you already know we counted each blessing with Hayden. We counted each day, smile, each seizure free moment, each hand that was lifted in the air. We counted the simple moments in life. We were blessed with an Earth Angel. We were proud of each accomplishment he made. We celebrated monthly. We enjoyed singing Happy Monthly Birthday to Him! Here are some pictures from his Batson Toy Drive for his 6 month Birthday!

What a blessing each person that participated was to children of the hospital. We are looking forward to taking toys to Batson again in a few weeks for Hayden and Ava Grace!

MERRY CHRISTMAS FROM OUR FAMILIY TO YOURS!
Hay-Hay loved monthly gifts!
 and sweets for his friends!
 ... he loved parties celebrating his life
 .... he loved his birthday hat, his elf, and his half 2 tiered cake
... he loved the gift of giving to others, he loved giving to the kids of Batson
 .... he loved his mommy and daddy
 ... he loved sharing the word of HOPE and FAITH

... he loved his mommy
 
 ... he loved supporting the hospital that gave him alot more days with mommy and daddy
.... he loves pretending to be Santa
 .... He loves being rudolph
 ..... he loved visiting the warm, furry santa
 .... he loved being dressed in his reindeer shoes
.... he loved his Santa hat
 .... he loved his sweet friends
 .... he loved sitting under the lights of the Christmas tree with Marley
 ... CELEBRATE the simple life blessings
 .... he loved that Santa came to visit
..... he said "thank you Elfs for all my Gifts"
.... he sometimes was sleepy from all the Christmas parties

 .... Merry Christmas from our Family to Yours. Count your blessings, hug your loved ones, Believe in Miracles, believe in HOPE, understand the REAL meaning behind Christmas. Enjoy each day to the fullest because tomorrow is not promised. Always continue legacies of the ones you love. Always smile as you look at pictures of the PAST and smile because you know it is Ten times better in Heaven. God's not done with you Yet, my precious precious angel in Heaven!

" Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful." Colossians 3:15


1 comment:

  1. "The more difficulties one has to encounter, within and without, the more significant and the higher in inspiration his life will be." You are such an inspiration to everyone Lauren. Hope your wonderful memories bring you happiness during the holiday season!

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